一定会发生的事

不难见到类似的对话：
爸爸：为何这么做？
儿子：我没有！
爸爸：你还狡辩！
接着爸爸开始打骂。。。。。。

其实，当你仔细去想，
若儿子有错，它固然会狡辩，不承认有错，
但若孩子是无辜的话，他也依然会狡辩，使自己不被冤枉。
所以，上述情况基本上是一定会发生的。
换个角度想想，若孩子立刻承认，你发而会担心，
万一有天儿子被冤枉了，那他会否立刻承认呢，那时你才开始紧张起来。

所以，生气是没必要的。
不如这样说：我根据资格证据初步怀疑你XXXX。
这时，被怀疑的人别生气，拿出你的证据证明你是清白的。
有证据，是非也知道了；有证据，狡辩是多余的。

这种一定发生的事并不特别，而已经司空见惯。
就像没有犯人已开始就向法庭认罪，
没人一开始就不否认自己所作的一切一样。
你向水打，水一定会溅上来。

:(

Haha, I can miss it last time but I dont miss it this time!

the only thing is that a :) turn to :( ,

I think they are not happy for the miss last time.

I'm sorry but this is the best I get.

The one at the left (the dimmer one, must observe very clearly in order to see it) is Mars,

The one at the right (the brighter one) is Venus.

the kitchen

While the title is ' the kitchen ', the focus is on food actually.
Food is important to our life, u can know more by study ur biology.
Here is some pic from me in dicovering the art of food.

The 1st, 2nd pic reminds me at many delicious memories.

there are much things to say about this stall.

it has the best char kuey tiao I ever taste.

Nice yet cheap (RM2 for 1), it is situated in Batu Pahat town.

Just near this 2 building below.

u wont forget the taste after a first taste.

See before.....

and after......

Now, back to something I found in my home.

The first thing is this thing below

it's hard to believed that this is a groundnut, even i have a shock when I first saw it.

and the next 1 can be my masterpiece.

Hello Mr Bread!

The last thing is 1 of my favourite food - cucumber

the next time u cut ur cucumber, observe carefully at the pattern of the water droplets form, it's very beautiful.

再说道歉

这次，我来探讨为何人们不太喜欢道歉。

首先是因为普遍的思想错误，因为道歉的人常被归类为较委屈的人。

其实，道歉一定是做错事吗？难道作对了，但效果不好，不必道歉说没做到最好吗？

我们该知道道歉的人不比人低一级，反而是高一级，因为他有更多勇气，更多责任感。

接下来，人们道歉始终被人这样说：“道歉有用吗？你下次还是会做错！”

难道大家都没听过士别三日，即更刮目相看吗？何必早早否定它呢？

这样反而让人不想道歉，继续犯错，接着变样。

他道歉了，委屈了，丢脸了，人们应该鼓励他，别让他重蹈覆彻，而非泼他冷水。

过后，被让道歉的人没台阶下。

你可以在背后劝他道歉，而不是当面问他为何不道歉。

道歉是出自内心的，不是逼的。  

原因有很多，无法一次说完。

但别让道钱贬值，对谁都好。

PS:今天报纸报道有关 boon 听成 bomb 的新闻。惨了，我有朋友的名有boon ，那以后上飞机不能叫他的名了。。。。。。

笑话两则

经过多年的努力，小明终于找到炸鸡蛋的方法。
当他拿到街上买时，却遇到了麻烦，因为他喊道：“有炸‘蛋’，快来买啊，有炸‘蛋’。。。。。。”

一天，老师对同学说：“你们回去写一篇‘雨中上学记’。”
第二天，竟然有同学写道：一天，林宇中。。。。。。

Putrajaya

Last few week, I went to Putra,

Here is some pic I take at there,

Actually I dont know what name is this bridge,

I pass by there just to take pic only.

This is taken while on the unknown bridge

The tiang lampu is very unique, dont you think so?

This is where PM stays

This is where PM prays (Just a guessing because it is next to where PM stays)

I have the feeling that there is 5 people in it
(The bright spot is not sun but reflection of flash light)

Watch the right side of the pic,
the 2 hands look like the advertisement of Nokia connecting people

I just know this building have something do with Selangor state because there is a Selangor flag beside it (Not in pic)

Here is some beautiful flower at Putra